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FAQs

What should I call you?

Outside of role-play and sessions please call me J, Whilst spanking please call me J.Moor.

 

Are you a professional?

I’m a corporate businessman by trade, when it comes to spanking, I’m an experienced enthusiast with over ten years of hands-on involvement. I approach every session with warmth, trustworthiness, and respect.

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Do you have sex with clients?

No. While spanking can be physically stimulating and role-play can feel very erotic, sometimes even leading to orgasm, sessions do not involve sex.

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What should I wear?

Whatever makes you comfortable. There are no rules.

 

Do you charge?

No, I do not seek financial gain from any sessions.

 

Where will the session take place?

Sessions can take place in your hotel room, or, if you feel comfortable, in the privacy of your own home. I do not host sessions at my residence.

 

Do I have to remove my clothes?

The key thing to remember is that you are in charge! We will discuss how comfortable you are being exposed. If it is your wish you can be partially exposed, completely dressed, or even naked.

 

Do spankings have to be hard?

Sessions and limits are discussed and will be respected. If you are new to spanking and are unsure of your limits, I use a simple traffic light system, see below.

 

Do you use safe words?

It’s not unusual for some women to express resistance during a session while still wanting the punishment to continue. To keep communication clear and straightforward, I use a simple traffic light system:

Green means you’re comfortable and I can carry on, or even increase the intensity.

Amber indicates that you’re nearing your limit; I’ll continue without going any harder.

Red means everything stops immediately, no questions asked.

 

How long will the session last?

Sessions are shaped around your personal needs, so the length can vary. While they usually last around an hour, there have been times when they’ve extended to twice that. Everything moves at a comfortable pace, nothing is rushing. At the start, we’ll take time to talk things through and make sure we’re both clear on expectations. Once the spanking is over, there’s also space to check in and talk about how it felt for you.

 

Do people engage in spanking to modify behaviour?

Absolutely. Consensual discipline can be aimed specifically at certain behavioural patterns, such as persistent bad habits. Stress and tension often build up around these issues, and just as physical exercise can help to release that pressure, a structured spanking can offer similar relief.

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